The Mission of Surfside Structured Sober Living:
Surfside Structured Sober Living is located just blocks from the ocean in the heart of Ventnor City, NJ. We provide a structured sober living environment for young men ages 18-34 as they transition from treatment through recovery into a new life. Rooted in the 12 steps, we use an array of tools and activities to help young men rebuild, rediscover and recover.
Surfside Structured Sober Living will teach our residents life-changing principles of trust, honesty and action by setting measurable goals and utilizing the 12-steps, resume building, cooking classes, budgeting skills, community service work, health goals and an array of adventure-based activities.
How Surfside Structured Sober Living is different:
Surfside Structured Sober Living is a 501c(3) Non-Profit. At Surfside, we provide an intimate and fully comprehensive structured sober living environment unlike any other in the state. Our small community allows men to form close bonds with one another. This small group also creates an opportunity for these men to become accountable while taking part in a life changing process of the 12-steps. Our 3 story home has 7 bedrooms, 2 kitchens, 3 full bathrooms and plenty of living space. We are 20 yards from the bay, which offers great fishing and excellent paddle boarding. In the opposite direction, we are 3 blocks from the beach (about a 5 min walk) and the Atlantic Ocean. The Surfside intensive life development phase program will teach young men to become self-sufficient and dependable. We intentionally keep our house small to ensure that nobody slips through the cracks, nor do they feel left out or alone.
Ian Koch, MS, LCADC, CAS
Ian Koch began working in the mental health field in 2003 at age 20. While completely delusional and ignorant to some of his own issues, he got his start working with teens at a young center while pursuing a bachelor’s degree in social work. He had a strong desire to help others but was completely unable to help himself. He had been in major trouble since age 12 and was even asked to leave Valley Forge Military Academy at age 14.
He continued to appear in courts around the east coast and eventually got clean on March 7, 2005. His desire to reach his hand out to others increased and he continued working with youth suffering from mental illness. Around 2 years sober, Ian moved into the addiction field. Ian obtained a Master’s Degree in Community Mental Health from Southern New Hampshire University and a Graduate Certificate in Pastoral Care from Saint Michael’s College. He is a Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor in multiple states and has received his Certification as an Addiction Specialist from the American Academy of Health Care Providers.
Over the past decade, Ian has worked in various aspects of addiction treatment, including intensive outpatient, residential, medication assisted treatment, detox and private practice. He has also worked in sober living, provided interventions, run family programs and case management for clients. His extensive knowledge and experience ignited the desire to create Surfside Structured Sober Living to provide a critical resource that the community lacks. Ian is adamant that clinical resources are important, which is why Surfside utilizes these services in the community, but he believes the key to lasting recovery is participating in constructive action through a supportive and encouraging environment.
When Ian is not helping others, he can be found spending time with his wife or running with their dogs Wilma and Charlie, and you will most certainly find him kitesurfing at the beach year-round, regardless of the temperature!
Dan Miranda, BS, ICADC, CAP
Dan Miranda is the newest addition to the Surfside Structured Sober Living team. He recently moved back to New Jersey after living in the south for about a decade. Dan has been working in the substance abuse field since 2009. He is a former United States Marine with a passion for fighting the domestic war against the opiate epidemic. He holds degrees in Psychology and Human Services along with additional seminary training for graduate school. He is currently back in school pursuing a Master’s Degree in Addiction Studies. Dan is a Certified Addictions Professional in the state of Florida and holds an International Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor’s credential. His passion is working with those struggling with addiction and assisting them to find a new way of living.
Dan has been counseling families and addicts on a private level for years and prides himself on helping families heal. Dan has worked at every level of care in treatment from detoxification all the way down to outpatient. He has been in an executive role and a program director at several facilities. Dan’s versatility and passion for recovery are part of what makes Surfside so special. His role in our extended care structured sober living focuses on the life development component of our comprehensive program.
Dan’s educational background and his personal recovery has placed him in a position to become a motivational speaker for over eight years and has worked with many men to aid them in the pursuit of living by spiritual principles. Dan even held the role of pastor and spearheaded a church that was focused on the recovery community in Florida during his time there. When he is not helping addicts, he is spending time with his wife and is very family focused.
By the age of 30, Tim had a 18 year run with addiction that caused trouble with his family, the law and put him in a financial mess. Tim tried to detox himself but always ended up with a worse habit in the end. Tim finally entered treatment and took the suggestions of the staff. They told him to get active in 12-step recovery by getting a sponsor, home group and to start working the 12-steps. It was also suggested to Tim that he should move into a sober house because living on his own, in early recovery, was risky.
Tim’s road to recovery did not stop there. He participated for a short time in his own recovery while living at an un-structured sober living home, but eventually felt he could manage better on his own. He left the state and relapsed shortly after. Tim came back into recovery over three years ago and set off with vengeance to change his life. He moved back into another sober house, got involved, followed directions and now has the benefits of a strong foundation in recovery.
Tim brings valuable experience to Surfside Structured Sober Living. He has knowledge spading many different areas of life and has owned and managed businesses in the past. At Surfside Tim is responsible for the day-to-day operations at Surfside like keeping the guys active and ensuring the day runs safe and smooth. In his free time, you will always find Tim with a smile on his face, in service to others, relaxing and most likely fishing or playing golf.
Growing up Nick was active in sports and went to Western New England University to study History and play baseball. His dream was to play professional baseball but after having 2 surgeries on his shoulder, Nick, just like many other had his first introduction to opiates. With baseball out of the picture he started working towards helping shape the minds of youth. While working on his Master in Education he got a job, working at Bonnie Brae, a residential facility for adolescent boys.
Nick grew very interested in the mental health field and moved to a job at Trinitas Regional Medical Center working in the child/adolescent/MICA PHP and IOP. While working there he shifted his educational focus to a Masters in Mental Health Counseling. During this time Nick’s addiction progressed from drinking to becoming heavily involved with prescription pills. Nick tried many different avenues to figure out what was wrong with him and how to fix his problem.
After attending 2 rehabs, ER visits, psych wards and individual counseling. Nick thought he had the world figured out but quickly realized his score card read zero. Nick finally decided to try something different and did not return home. He went to a Structured Sober Living in Southern New Jersey and stayed for a significant time. While there he got involved in the recovery community and with the guidance of staff started to rebuild his life.
Nick now works with Surfside Recovery Services Inc. as our Community Outreach Liaison and also helps out with Recovery Coaching when necessary. Nick has become an instrumental member of the recovery community and can often be found helping some of the residents at Surfside. When he is not working you can find him relaxing on the beach, working out in the gym or spending time with his family and friends.
Jared Shedrofsky, BS
Jared came to Surfside at 24, and was our 3rd resident in the program. His family was not willing to let him move back to New York with them and took a chance on Surfside during its infancy. He came to us late May of 2016 following another failed semester at the University of Colorado at Boulder, a degree which was started in 2009. Jared’s struggle with addiction started in high school, and brought him to new lows through this seven year period in Colorado. Ever since he was a kid he never was able to commit himself to much, having serious trouble initiating anything productive. The only thing that seemed to draw him into action were drugs and alcohol.
At 26, Jared’s life is vastly different, through completing Surfside, working a recovery program and now helping others. Jared has now been a Surfside employee since November of 2016, and is a valuable member of the staff. He has completed all his classes and received a Bachelors degree in Psychology, from CU Boulder. His Psych background brings a unique approach to interacting with residents, with a strong belief in constructive criticism. Jared also received an opportunity for additional training and became a certified recovery coach.
Jared is very active, playing arguably too much golf and can often be found in the gym. He also loves to ski and snowboard, and has previously worked on a ski mountain in Vermont. If Jared was not working at Surfside he claims he would be a dog breeder, although he wouldn’t sell any of the dogs. He hopes to bring a recovery dog into the Surfside family very soon.
At 24-years-old, John was living in a rooming house surrounded by prostitution, drug dealers, and crime. From the age of 17 he battled with addiction, homelessness, and multiple attempts at treatment. His methods of treatment included detox, inpatient rehabilitation, intensive out-patient, and medication assisted treatment. Each time, however, John could not surrender to the fact that if he was to stay sober, he would be required to make some drastic changes. His ability to get and stay clean was the result of putting time and effort into his own recovery.
During his active addiction, John had grandiose ideas such as continuing his education at the age of 18. His addiction had progressed past the point of being able to attend college with any success, so within the first semester he dropped out of all his classes. 7 years later, John enrolled back into college to begin attaining a degree in Social Work. His passion for helping others had been identified and he set out to achieve his goals. Putting all into his education that he had put into his recovery, he has sustained a 4.0 GPA, and received multiple awards; including the Dean’s List. More recently John was certified as a recovery coach.
John’s philanthropic work extends past the point of Surfside Structured Sober Living. You can often find him reaching out to others who are like him, living where and how he was. He won’t hesitate to tell you it is one of his hobbies. Conversely, if you were to go to the bowling alley, beach, boardwalk, or local fitness center, you would find him making the most out of his freedom in sobriety. More recently John got a puppy!
Brian’s addiction began and ended in New Jersey with stops along the way in Washington, D.C., North Carolina, California and almost every state in between. Having been a patient at most of the in-patient facilities in the tri-state area, Brian’s final stop was at Surfside.
Prior to beginning his recovery, Brian’s innate interest of all things lead him to work as a Congressional Page in Washington, D.C. during his Junior Year of high school. Following his completion of the Page Program, Brian interned for Major League Baseball and a multi-media company on Capitol Hill. Upon graduating from high school, Brian fell victim to typical undergraduate peer-pressures. In his freshman year of college he was introduced to prescription opiates. In the following nine years, Brians addiction brought him to homelessness, financial dereliction and complete separation from his family.
Throughout his addiction Brian’s family was the motivation he needed to continue on. After 15+ failed attempts at recovery, Brian was living in East Camden surrounded by scenes of addiction, prostitution, and theft. In a final attempt Brian consulted his father for help. This call for help led Brian to the completion of a 28-day in-patient program. After tapping his parents financially for the last time, Brian asked his Grandmother for help. Brian and his Grandmother Adele, found Surfside Structured Sober Living.
Since Brian has come to Surfside he has changed tremendously. Not only did Brian become an active member of the recovery community but he became a leader at the house. Brian now finds himself able to manage his own finances, personal relationships and has even continued on in pursuit of his undergraduate degree. We asked Brian to take our House Manager position because of his exemplary leadership, solid work ethic and his innate ability to connect with people. Lastly, Brian has been certified as a Recovery Coach to which provides additional skills and training to our team.